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A ten-year-old girl in Tennessee had some bad experiences on the bus to school, and as an alternative, her mother let her ride her bike to school. The school, by the way, has bike racks, indicating they do expect at least some of their students to arrive that way. A cop brought the daughter back, and told the mom she would be charged with child neglect and reported to Child Protective Services if she did this again.
The police say their street is the busiest street in town; the mother says it's a quiet, residential street, and she passed a total of eight cars the four times she was drove that street that day. After a conversation with the chief of police, the mother has been informed that she will be arrested if she allows her daughter to walk or bike to school before they hear back from CPS.
When I was ten, we were expected to walk or bike to school unless, due to school assignments, it was too far to make that possible. The rare parents who did not allow their children to walk or bike to school were regarded with disapproval, as overly protective and coddling, and stifling their children's need to be children. I grew up in a city about twice the size that Elizabethton TN is now, an urban suburb of Boston, and the road to school was Broadway, a.k.a. Rte. 99, a major and very busy thoroughfare. It was not a quiet, residential street, and the only time you could be on Broadway and only see eight cars was during a major blizzard. Ten-year-olds were expected to know the rules of the road, be aware of the sometimes unpredictable behavior of motorists, and be able to bike or walk safely to and from school.
Children were not confined to the inside of their homes unless under adult supervision.
Were there risks to being relatively free-range children? Of course their were--although those risks were not generally encountered on the way to and from school, when other children and adults were around and engaged in the same commute. We did not, however, have the epidemic of childhood obesity we have now, or kids who had no idea how to get around their own towns, no idea what to do when they encountered an unfamiliar dog, or who had limited experience dealing with adults outside their immediate circle. It's trite to say that we knew our neighbors, but, heck, it's true. There was no telling when you might have to go ring the neighbor's doorbell and ask permission to retrieve your ball.
It wasn't idyllic by any means, and the only reason we didn't have cell phones and internet connections is because those things didn't come along until several years later. But kids got a lot more exercise, and developed their social skills and their personal resourcefulness to a much greater degree.
I don't want to give up my cell phone or internet connection but, please, can we let kids ride their bikes, and take walks without direct adult supervision at all times?